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Rachel Donald's avatar

Hey everyone, thanks so much for all your comments. I recognise I've got a working definition of violence that I'm teasing out for a book that I didn't explicate in this piece. Put simply, my definition is the severing of relationships. Much, much more on it to come.

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Bob Banks's avatar

Wow - I feel for you - a lot of bravery in sharing this.

Dunno if this is helpful, but I'm unclear what the concept of "violence" encompasses for you - and a bit uneasy about what seems to be a very broad application of it. I wonder whether it might be helpful to unbundle some parts of the word "violence", in what you've written into the words "conflict" and "suffering"? For example, you write - "the violence of death that allows life". It's true that death allows life - but I don't think death is always "violence" , whereas it is (pretty much) always "suffering". And, regarding "violence" and "conflict", there are important fields of thought developing ways to separate conflict from violence. They contend that, from personal relationships to international relationships. conflict is inevitable, but violence is not. Work in the fields of nonviolent conflict resolution, conflict transformation, nonviolent communication, etc. develops this very fruitfully.

I've no idea whether this helps - but very best wishes for you, in working your way through all this.

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